INCREDIBLE: You’re unlucky, doctors tell woman who lost 22 babies

By Editor on 18/03/2018

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She suffered several miscarriages while trying for another baby but was told by doctors that there was nothing wrong. (Picture: BPM Media)

I’ll be a mother on earth, a distraught, but determined, woman who had 16 miscarriages, buried three of her babies, held funerals for two, and just lost her child number 22, has vowed.

All her life, Kerry Hutchinson, 35, whose dream of becoming a mother, but has suffered a lifetime of grief and heartache instead, claims she was told by doctors that she is ‘just unlucky,’ UK METRO, reports.

She has been unable to have a child that has survived, despite trying more than 22 times. But when she asked doctors what’s wrong with her, she was allegedly told she’s perfectly healthy and that’s she is just ‘unlucky’.

The 35-year-old told Birmingham Live: ‘I will never give up trying. I need answers to why all my babies have died.’ Having held her first born girl in her arms for 12 difficult hours before she died, the hope of what may seem to be an unreachable dream has never left Kerry.

Kerry, an ex-model and cleaner from Rugeley, always longed for a family of her own – and losing her first daughter, Paige, only made her need for a child grow stronger.

‘She was a little dot, just 2lb 2oz,’ recalls Kerry. ‘My little Paige was born prematurely and passed away at 12 hours old.’ At a post-natal check, doctors investigating the death of Paige found that Kerry had cervical cancer.

‘They tried to laser the cancer away, they tried drugs but nothing was working,’ she says. ‘So they removed most of my cervix.’ Doctors told Kerry to keep trying for another baby. They said her reduced cervix wouldn’t cause issues with her carrying babies but warned it would start her dilating early as the foetus grew to a certain weight.

Any babies would be born prematurely. She suffered several miscarriages while trying for another baby but was told by doctors that there was nothing wrong.

Kerry said: ‘We kept trying for a baby but I just kept losing them early on. There was a little boy next, but he died in her womb in the second trimester. ‘I refused to give birth to him, knowing he was already gone. It’s different to giving birth to the babies who had been alive and who I’d held in my arms.’

Kerry Hutchinson, 35, lost 22 babies and was told she's very unlucky by doctor Graves to two of her babies, Paige and Lucas Credit: BPM Media

All her life, Kerry, 35, has dreamed of becoming a mum but has suffered a lifetime of grief and heartache instead. (Picture: BPM Media)

Fertility treatment was the next option, and proved successful at first. She became pregnant in just two months. But when baby Lucas was born at just 22 weeks, doctors could do nothing to save him. ‘He took a few breaths and then he passed away. ‘It broke my heart. I was devastated. I had a nervous breakdown when I lost Lucas. I didn’t expect to bury a third child.

‘Losing Lucas is what finished us. In eight weeks I’d lost my son, my relationship, my house, my mortgage, my job, my mind – everything just completely fell apart.

‘I sat in my room for weeks and nobody asked me if I was OK. I literally got up one day and I walked out of the house with just the clothes on my back, and I never looked back, as sad as it is.’

Due to the fact that Kerry had suffered three losses in the second trimester, she was given a trans-abdominal stitch to help prevent pregnancy loss. ‘I was only the sixteenth person in the country to have one,’ she says.

‘I hadn’t been getting pregnant for a while because my body was doing lots of different crazy things. But me and my fiance went to the IVF clinic, and by some miracle I’d managed to get pregnant.’ ‘Everything had been going ‘brilliantly’ according to the midwives and doctors, and they’d seen their baby’s heartbeat on four different scans. I’d gone in on Monday March 5, as a normal scan date, to be signed off to a different hospital.

‘Eleven weeks was the furthest we’d got in four years – but when we got there the baby had no heartbeat. I was admitted to hospital and they tried for three days straight to induce me, but the baby wouldn’t come out.’ Kerry and partner Connell are now sadly planning what will be Kerry’s fourth baby burial. Despite all the trauma and heartbreak she has been through, she refuses to give up her fight for a baby.

Woman who has lost 22 babies says doctors just call her 'very unlucky'

Kerry Hutchinson, 35, pictured with her fiance Connell, has lost 22 babies but rather than an answer from doctors, she was allegedly told she was just ‘very unlucky’ (Picture: BPM Media)

 

‘I will be a mum on this earth one way or another,’ she insists. Kerry still cherishes the dream of becoming a mum – and has shared her story to show there is always hope.

‘Rather than sitting in bed in the hospital, feeling sorry about something I couldn’t change, we set up a web page. It’s called Kerry’s dream.’

The Facebook page was launched to raise awareness, and in the hope of helping to fund that dream.

 

 

Source METRO

Posted on March, 18 2018

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